make room for life! talk&solve the problem!

are you the kinda person that when something bugs you, you just can't live until it's gone? well, i know some people (not saying who...), that just plain over react!
well, one you need to learn to control your emotions.(especially anger!) one way i do that is when i get mad, i punch a pillow. now i know that SEEMS out of line, but it's a good way to get rid of that anger. now that that's gone, it's time to take care of the way you reacted towards the other person. you need to stand up and face what you did and how you did it. i'm gonna tell you a little secret..........a life with God, will get you alot farther then you'll get yourself! life is a whole lot easier with God by your side! ok... now back to the subject!
you need to face the consequences, that's part of life, and if you can't except 'em, well, then Good luck! how to talk to the person.........well it's all a word play! first you have to consider, can this person hold a grudge? now, why do i need to consider that? well, if you don't that person might not of had enough time to cool off, and then, well you know what happens next.
anyway, if you've already considered, and think it's time to talk, well here's your comlete guide!

1 use of words it's all about the words you say and how you say 'em!
if you say IT'S OK but say it in a MEAN TONE, then their most likely not gonna believe, that it's really ok.
2 the truth! if you say  YOUR FORGIVIN, but inside you really are mad at them, then they will eventually figure out that their not forgiven and the fight will never end.
3 express! express your feelings, and don't hide them! tell the person EXACTLY what your thinking, and why your thinking what your thinking!
4 resolve! this is the main problem people have nowdays, ending the problem! how do you end it? you ask. well, as iv'e been saying throughout this whole post, TALK IT OUT! obviously that means talking to eachother about the problem and why it's a problem, also how your going to solve this problem! don't be afraid to let your inner feelings out!

it your still having a problem after this post, try talking to God, that always helps me!